Meet Child Advocacy Specialist Quincy Thompson

Why did you decide to come work for CASA? I had previously worked and volunteered with CASA in Alabama and realized there was a need for more to raise awareness and advocate for children in care. And although it can be challenging at times, it was a rewarding experience, and I had the chance to met some amazing people. So when I moved to Texas, it seemed fitting that CASA would be a good choice.

What is your professional and educational background? I have a Master's Degree in Social Work.


What first caused you to get involved with CASA? After working in the medical field for several years and I wanted a change. A friend encouraged me to apply for a position with CASA and I received a job offer and accepted it.

What keeps you coming back every month in helping CASA? As a CASA employee, we hear so many heart wrenching stories and situations of families who are or have experienced some type of abuse, exploitation, or neglect. I have seen first-hand the difference CASA makes by encouraging children and showing up to advocate for their best interest.

What has been the most rewarding part of being on staff at CASA? I would have to say seeing children in care find their forever home, with relatives or an adoptive family. Participating in National Adoption Day this year really gave me a fresh awareness of why we do what we do.

Please share a special moment with us about your work with CASA volunteers or supporters. We value our volunteers and recognize that each one of them brings a unique set of knowledge and skills with them, whether it’s a background in computer science, ministry experience, or a degree in education. They motivate us to do more and explore new avenues to reach more families in need as they give selflessly of their time, energy, and talents.

What would you say to a potential supporter? There is always a need to be filled with the children and families that we serve. Whether it's building a positive relationship with a child, helping with community events, or donating funds so that CASA can serve more child in need. They are all essential to making a difference in a child's life.

Why do you think it’s important for your local community to support CASA and what they do? I have learned that sometimes we may not always truly understand or even see the impact that we may have on communities we serve, but we do have an opportunity to plant a seed each time we encounter a child and a family in need by showing kindness and help remind them that they are seen, cared for, and heard.

Never underestimate the power of showing up or lending a listening ear because it speaks volumes to a child or anyone whose whole world has capsized.

Do you want to share some encouraging words to our volunteers? I have seen and heard countless stories about why children are removed from the care of their parents, and my prayer is that someday the stories about how families have been reunited and rebuilt with love and support will out number the former.

Meet CASA Volunteer Bill Huston

Meet CASA Volunteer Bill Huston! Bill has lived in Southlake for the last 29 years. Originally from Oak Ridge, TN, Bill moved to the DFW area from Tampa, FL, in 1993 when the healthcare business he was working for opened an office in Dallas. When Bill first moved to Texas, he was the Senior Vice President (SVP) of Finance for Tenet. Later, he took on the role of SVP for Triad Hospitals, Inc., located in Plano. When they sold the company in 2007, he decided to retire and step away from the business world. That didn’t last long though, and soon Bill was working as the SVP of Finance for a hospice company. He retired for a second time in 2013 and enjoyed the slower pace of retirement for a short time before getting restless once again. He soon stepped into the role of CFO for Scottish Rite for Children. In 2020, with an assist from Covid, he decided to try retirement a third time, and this time it worked. He has no interest in having another paid position and is perfectly content with his role as a full time Uber driver for his grandkids – so far, it’s the best job he’s ever had.

Bill enjoys spending time with his family – his three children, their spouses, and his eight grandchildren. His daughter, Hollee, is married to Sam Ford, and together they have four children: Marlee (14), Lilly (14), Beau (14), and Nash (7). Bill’s oldest son, Chad, is married to Lisa, and they have a daughter, Zinnia (6). Heath is the youngest of Bill’s children and is married to JuliAnne. They have three children: Everly (8), Charlotte (6), and Jett (1).

Bill’s family has many traditions, but his favorite is taking a one-week family vacation each year with the entire gang. Although it’s challenging with such a large group, everyone enjoys the adventure and time spent together. This past year, they traveled to the North Island of Turks and Caicos, which Bill says may be one of the best vacations they’ve had together.

When Bill isn’t traveling or driving the grandkids around, you can often find him at hot yoga or outdoors taking part in a variety of sports. He currently plays on two senior softball teams and two senior baseball teams, and plays pickleball, tennis, and golf. According to Bill, his very active lifestyle helps him hang with the grandkids. Bill is also a volunteer CFO for E3 in Plano, a non-profit organization that establishes churches all over the world and supports missionaries in many foreign countries.

In addition to E3, Bill spends several hours a month volunteering for one of his favorite organizations, CASA of Tarrant County. Bill is a court-appointed volunteer with CASA, taking an oath to advocate for the best interest of children. As an advocate, Bill speaks for children in court, making fact-based recommendations for placement to the judge based on his discussions with the children, family members, teachers and others to find out where the children will be happiest and safest. Bill is a reliable constant for children who are experiencing a chaotic time in their lives.

According to Bill, one of the most rewarding parts of being a CASA is the unique connection you have with your assigned child. “It’s just simple moments of spending time with the child. My child is a little introverted – spends lots of time on social media. I’ve had him on a skateboard, throwing a football, and shooting basketball. I think all kids should sweat some after school, and I encourage my child to enjoy the outdoors – although I did have to make a deal with him to play Uno each time I was there. It’s been a very humbling experience.”

Although Bill had some initial concerns as to whether he was qualified to navigate the maze of agencies often required for foster children, the CASA organization has helped him every step of the way. They have the best support system and will take a problem or issue if it’s beyond Bill’s knowledge or experience.

Bill encourages other adults to consider becoming a CASA. It takes about five hours a month and your initial commitment is one year. He especially encourages men to get involved. “If you want to change a family tree – come join us. These boys need a father figure in their life – someone they can reach out to if they happen to change foster parents or an event in their life where they need to feel secure or cared for. They didn’t choose their circumstance, but we as men can choose to get involved. I don’t think giving five hours of our time is much of a request when you have a child in need.”

Bill is the featured neighbor of the month of December in Stroll Our Neighborhood Magazine! In this feature, Bill talks about his work with CASA. Click here to read.

Celebrating a Month of Cheer

As we approach a time of celebrations, let us explore the holidays being celebrated and why they are important to our CASA families. 

Beginning the evening of December 10 and lasting eight days until December 18, Hanukkah or Chanukah celebrates the rededication of the Second Temple in Jerusalem, where Jews had risen up against their Greek-Syrian oppressors known as the Maccabean Revolt. Also known commonly as the “Festival of Lights,” Hanukkah begins on the 25th of Kislev on the Hebrew calendar with the lighting of the menorah-- the gold candelabrum whose seven branches represent knowledge and creation. The Hanukkah “Miracle” proclaims that once the Jews had successfully driven the Syrians out of Jerusalem, Judah Maccabee called on his followers to cleanse the Second Temple, rebuild its altar, and light the menorah. Although there was only enough oil for the menorah to remain lit for a single day, the flames continued to burn for eight nights. Jewish families keep the spirit of the miracle alive by lighting the menorah, eating traditional foods, and playing traditional games. 

On December 25, Christians around the world gather to celebrate the holiday known as Christmas. This day marks the anniversary of Jesus of Nazareth’s birth. Nearly 2000 years ago, God sent the angel Gabriel to a young woman named Mary who was engaged to Joseph. The angel told Mary that she would become pregnant by the Holy Spirit and give birth to the Son of God to be named Jesus. When it came time for Jesus to be born, Mary and Joseph set out on a journey for Bethlehem where they could not find a place to stay so the only place they could find was a manger full of animals. Here the Son of God was born and Wise Men gifted the new King with gold, frankincense, and myrrh. Following the traditions first started by St. Nicholas, today, Christmas is celebrated with giving gifts, decorating Christmas trees, attending Church, sharing meals with family and friends, and waiting for Santa Claus to arrive. St. Nicholas would secretly travel to the countryside to bring gifts to the poor and sick to remind children of the greatest gift of all, Jesus Christ. 

On December 26, the African-American cultural celebration of Kwanzaa begins and lasts until January 1 of the new year. Created in 1966 by Dr. Maulana Karenga, Kwanzaa celebrates the African-American culture following the Watts Rebellion known as the Watts Riots that broke out in August of 1965. The Watts Rebellion lasted for six days in the predominantly Black neighborhood of Watts in Los Angeles, California, which resulted in 34 deaths, 1,032 injuries, 4,000 arrests, involving 34,000 people and the destruction of 1,000 buildings. What began with a white police officer pulling over stepbrothers Marquette and Ronald Frye and arresting Marquette for a failed sobriety test, led to the outbreak of riots between the surrounding crowds and police forces. Kwanzaa remembers the brutality that took place against the African-American communities around the country during this time and honors African heritage with “first fruit” harvest celebrations. On each of the seven nights, families gather and a child lights one of the candles on the Kinara and one of the seven principles, Nguzo Saba, is discussed. Umoja, Kujichagulia, Ujima, Ujamaa, Nia, Kuumba, and Imani are the seven principles of African culture that contribute to building and reinforcing community among African-Americans. The African feast of Karamu is held on December 31. Families celebrate with songs and dances, African drums, storytelling, poetry readings, and large traditional meals. 

We are wishing all of our CASA families very happy holidays this season!

Reflecting on Adoption Awareness Month

What started as a week-long initiative of adoption awareness in 1984 by President Reagan, has grown to become a month-long celebration of adoption in the United States. As an initiative from the Children’s Bureau, the goal of dedicating the month of November to this issue is to increase the awareness around adoption issues and highlight the need for youth and teen adoption from the foster care system. In particular, the Children’s Bureau emphasizes the importance of teen adoption, as teens experience more difficulty with finding a permanent home and so often “age out” of the system. Being on their own, they are at a higher risk of experiencing homelessness, unemployment, lack of access to healthcare, as well as other social and behavioral issues, which is why adoption is critical to the child’s health, well-being, and future success in the world.

This year’s National Adoption Month theme is “Small Steps Open Doors.” Meaning that taking small steps to help the youth in foster care be adopted and provide them a permanent home can create a lifetime of opportunities for them to succeed in life.  Consider taking these small steps:

Take the time to listen and talk to youth and teens in the foster care system. Consider becoming a mentor as being someone the child can turn to for support and guidance.

Get involved with a local organization that champions advocacy for youth in the foster care system, like CASA of Tarrant County!

Donate supplies or craft “welcome” boxes for the child to take to their foster homes as they await permanent placement.

Raise funds and make a donation to organizations that help children get adopted.

 Little things can make such a life changing difference in the lives of the foster care children in need of support. Learn how you can speak up for abused and neglected children by visiting CASA’s website https://www.speakupforachild.org/

Meet CASA Volunteer Allison Wendler

What made you decide to become a CASA? I have always been interested in foster care and adoption. I have been a both a foster parent and an adoptive parent and I know how badly these kids need someone on their side. Plus I believe that if you have a cause you are highly interested in that you should get involved and do something. Many hands make light work and the world would be a better place if everyone just pitched in a little!

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding part of being a CASA is knowing that my work has made an impact on the case. My child’s case has been topsy turvy with many changes in placement, school, caseworker, family involvement, etc. in a relatively short amount of time. If he did not have a CASA there would be no one familiar with the case from start to finish.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. Recently I was unable to visit my child in person and had to FaceTime. I was initially worried how this would go as he is pretty young and not much into conversation. However, it ended up being one of our best visits. He was so interested in my family, pets, home and it was fun to see him come out of his shell asking questions and interacting. An hour flew by!

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? When I visit with my child I like to bring several options: books, games, puzzles, craft and let him choose what he wants to do. That is usually play a game or do a puzzle. I also like to take him lunch at school. I think every child feels extra special when a grown up shows up at school with a special meal and this is a good way to let them know that they are important!

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? I think it is important for a child to have a consistent face during this chaotic time. When placements, caseworkers, etc. are unpredictable it is important for them to know that *someone* is going to consistently show up for them. Many of these kids have never had an adult in their life that was reliable. This helps lay the foundation for trust and attachment when they get to their permanent place. Also, from a practical standpoint, it is good to have someone who is familiar with the case from beginning to end and can help brief everyone when there are changes.

National Make a Difference Day

October 22 is officially National Make a Difference Day!

Hear from CASA Staff Members on how YOU can make a difference in a child’s life:

“When a child enters foster care, their entire world is turned upside down. Oftentimes, it continues to rapidly change during the duration of their stay in care. Having a CASA volunteer can change that negative perspective for a child. While their family situation may or may not improve enough for them to return home, or their caseworkers may continually turn over, a CASA volunteer provides a stable presence for them; through thick and thin. This is not something that can be measured on paper, but rather in what can be referred to as "their CASA moments."

“A CASA volunteer is there for the child every step of the way: every placement change, missed visit from the child’s guardian, caseworker change, court decision that does not result in permanency for their child. They are also there for their first steps, school events, holidays, and all the quiet moments of just being there with their kids. When a CASA volunteer is committed to being there for a child, it slowly builds a trust between them and that child and it teaches them that "not everyone will leave them" or abandon them. When a CASA volunteer is able to say they were there to comfort a child after a letdown from someone else or cheer them on at a band concert or sporting event, or help them fill out applications for a job, they can say that this is their "why." This consistency makes a dramatic difference in the life of a child for years to come.”

 “When we see children reach out to contact to their CASA volunteer to tell them about exciting or upsetting news, the CASA volunteer knows they are teaching that child how to be in a positive relationship with another person - that they are worthy of someone's time and efforts. These moments usually do not come in quick succession, but rather slowly over time. Sometimes an advocate does not recognize that these little moments add up to a large, positive change they helped create for that child until someone else helps them see it. It's powerful when such positive progress happens for a child because you know that while that child may be someone who has learned not to trust the world around them, a seed is planted that maybe they can learn to trust one person at a time.”

The advocacy of a CASA Volunteer today makes a lifetime of change for a child’s future.

 

Meet CASA Volunteer Janet Shearer

What made you decide to become a CASA? Personal life experiences are what called me to become involved in CASA, a way to bring a voice to the children who needed it most. Throughout my life I have witnessed children, friends, and students experience hardships of things they had no control over. A safe place to live, regular meals and support to develop emotionally, developmentally and academically. As a mother, I watched my own children bring friends home who were not being provided their basic needs. As a teacher I worked with children who often did not have their basic needs met. Growing up with a special needs sister I understand when people can not speak for themselves speaking up for them is the right thing to do.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding part of being a CASA is stepping up and trying to help children that you know now are hurting. On my first CASA case there were two girls, seven and an infant. Their biological mother had mental health issues, in addition to other things. The mother relied on her seven year old to care for not only the newborn, but her as well. As the story unfolded the girls moved back with the bio dad and new wife. I like to think back to a time when I brought lunch for my CASA kid at school. I listened to her talk about her dad and his wife. She seemed so happy. She talked about kid thigs like roller skating and going fishing with her dad. It gave me peace when the decision was made.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. My favorite way to to connect with my CASA kids is meeting them at their school for lunch. It is a great opportunity to learn more about them and see them with their teachers and friends. I find out about the classes they are taking, and what they like to eat. Most importantly, I get to spend time with them without their bio and foster siblings. It re enforces that I am there for them and them only. I enjoy spending time with my casa kids and love bringing a smile to their face.

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? A CASA provides stability. Foster homes, schools, family dynamics, rules, expectations and friendships all change, way too often for these children. It is a unfamiliar and an often scary time for them. A CASA advocate can be the only adult that stays in contact with them throughout this process. It is this reason I try to really work with foster parents because they spend the most time with the kids and its hard if they keep changing foster homes. Also if possible, I have siblings move to the same foster home so they don't have to worry about their siblings.

CASA Kids on Canvas One-Night Gallery Event

Support CASA of Tarrant County through their upcoming event, CASA Kids on Canvas!

CASA Kids on Canvas benefiting CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates) of Tarrant County is back and better than ever!

 This event is a special one-night gallery showcasing artwork created by children of all ages that are currently in foster care.

 Each year, thousands of children in Tarrant County are confirmed victims of child abuse and neglect. These children have experienced terrible trauma – turning their lives upside down. Child Protective Services takes legal responsibility for them and may place them in a foster home or other facility. Due to too few foster homes, siblings are often split up into different places. Children are rarely able to stay in their own schools, day cares, or communities. Everything they have known is gone. Through no fault of their own, these abused children have become a part of an overburdened child welfare system. They deserve a voice in the courtroom. They need a CASA volunteer.

 “I’m for the child that is convinced that the horrible acts of abuse and neglect they have suffered is somehow their fault… every child that needs a CASA has someone out there, who is fiercely advocating on their behalf. For better or worse, children are our future. Every child deserves a safe, healthy home to live in.” – Matt Opitz, Board of Directors Board Member

 Being in foster care, these children often feel disconnected due to the circumstances that placed them in care. CASA volunteers help them feel as normal as possible, while advocating for their best interests in court. These volunteers are specially trained and appointed by judges to speak up for these children and advocate for their unique needs in court, at school and in other settings. From helping siblings find permanent placement together, to finding a child a stable home with a relative, to uncovering information that helps reunite a loving family, volunteer advocates make incredible differences in the lives of abused and neglected children.

 Here at CASA of Tarrant County, we strongly believe that the children we serve be not only safe, but that their every need is being met. Not just educationally or medically, but also culturally. The need for volunteers is crucial. And being bilingual is a huge bonus that can only make a positive impact in a child’s life. Cristi Lantano, Child Advocacy Specialist, says “Having a bilingual advocate who can address the child’s needs, concerns, and desires in their own language, can make a huge difference in their case!”

Having a CASA volunteer and participating in CASA’s Paint Parties, where they create beautiful paintings that will be on display at our Kids on Canvas event, is often a chance for these children to have normalcy, fun and socialize with other children – and sometimes reuniting siblings. Two siblings were able to attend, Julian and Monique were able to play, paint, and laugh together as they created their artwork. Julian took the time to help Monique with her bright paints to create something that she is proud of! We’re hoping you are able to see it too!

Volunteers also report that their experience being a CASA is extremely meaningful. CASA volunteer Rebekah Sweetenham says, “The most rewarding part of being a CASA is: seeing that smile, when they feel safe with you and are at peace. Listening to their dreams in life. Experiencing milestones together…learning to speak, progressing in school, and overcoming behavioral differences… I am especially grateful for every waking moment with my kids.”

 CASA’s upcoming Kids on Canvas event will help raise funds for critical advocacy and support services to these volunteers who advocate on behalf of the abused and neglected children in Tarrant County. It will also be a great opportunity to learn more about the organization’s mission and network with other supporters. You don’t want to miss out! Join us Thursday, October 20, 2022, 5-7:30pm at The 4 Eleven off South Main in Fort Worth. Sponsors of this fun event include TPG, M-Pak, The Law Offices of Veronica Garza, Charlie & MK Scherer, Fort Worth Roots Podcast, Society Life Magazine and Patron Magazine.

 Delicious bites and drinks will be served, and guests will have the opportunity to win premium raffle prizes such as overnight accommodations at Hotel Drover, a 10-person succulent party, admission to local museums and attractions, premium gift bags and much more. There will also be kid-friendly activities, and opportunities to take home one-of-a-kind paintings.

Registration is available online at www.speakupforachild.org/canvas

To learn more about becoming a CASA volunteer, please visit www.speakupforachild.org/become-an-advocate

Or to make a generous monetary donation, please visit www.speakupforachild.org/donate

Supporter Spotlight: Garage Men's Grooming

Dani Brooks is not your average small business owner. She prides herself on being 100% woman owned and operated, owning 4 locations (and counting!), and being an inspirational “bossbabe” to her employees stating: “If you take care of your employees and treat them right, then in return, they will take care of the customer and treat them right as well!”. Not only is she a force to be reckoned with, but she also takes great pride in being involved and give back to her community.

Dani, along with her husband Dylan, host the annual Garage Men’s Grooming Golf Tournament with 100% of the proceeds benefitting CASA of Tarrant County. This event will be sponsored by over 35 businesses, individuals, and local entrepreneurs, and host over 30 teams at the Southern Oaks Golf Course in Burleson, TX on Saturday, September 10, 2022.

To CASA of Tarrant County CEO, Don Binnicker, he appreciated the efforts and commitment Dani and Dylan Brooks give to CASA of Tarrant County and therefore the children that are served:

“Hearing about the horrors of child abuse and neglect is hard to hear and believe for anyone. Once Dani and Dylan Brooks learned more about these tragedies, they decided to do something to help the children and families affected by these horrors - to heal from this trauma and move ahead in their lives. Dani and Dylan decided they wanted to give back to their community and do more to multiply their efforts. They started the Garage Men’s Grooming Golf Tournament, a fundraising event, to support the work of CASA of Tarrant County in advocating for child victims who are living in foster care in our community.

By participating in this great event, you are joining forces with Dani and Dylan, as well as the hundreds of volunteers making sure children in foster care are getting the best care and services. Thank you for commitment and support to the children we serve, and a huge “Thank You” to Dani and Dylan for their loving and giving hearts.”

Check out last year’s Golf Tournament, thanks to Constantine Films

We at CASA of Tarrant County are excited to have such fierce and committed supporters like Dani and Dylan Brooks. THANK YOU!

“We donate our time and our money because we believe in CASA and fully stand behind them in their support to help abused and neglected children ”  - Dani & Dylan Brooks

To learn more about The Garage Men’s Grooming services and locations, please visit: https://www.thegaragemg.com/

*Photographed by Jen Mark Photography

Meet CASA Volunteer Melody Cabrera

What made you decide to become a CASA? This is something that I was inclined to do. I'm a very giving person and I love to do for others, especially those individuals who feel hopeless and helpless. If I can be a motivation to others by sharing my own life experiences to give them hope for the future, then I'm all about it!

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding part is seeing my CASA kids grow in every aspect. They were a little shy at the beginning and now they are always looking forward to my visits and sharing all their accomplishments and future goals. They are part of my family now.

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. I arranged a birthday party for my CASA kids at Urban Air and they were so happy to have all their family there. Just to see them smile and be so appreciative made my day. 4. What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kids? My favorite way to connect with my CASA kids is face-to-face. I have a great time connecting with them and we always have encouraging conversations.

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? It's a way to escape some of their harsh reality through positive experiences. Sharing your journey with them gives them perspective on their own lives and helps them get through obstacles. They need to have someone who is strong and caring on their team and who wants their best interest always.

Meet Training Specialist Sharon Young

Meet Sharon! She’s our Training Specialist here at CASA!

“Hi, I’m Sharon. I became interested in joining CASA when a colleague spoke to me about the mission of CASA. Safety, Permanency, and Healing. This is what we all need, but especially as a child. I have essentially worked with children my entire life. I began my professional career as a pediatric nurse. After returning to college, I graduated from SMU with a master’s degree in Anthropology. I continued to work with families and children through refugee resettlement programs and then as a case manager and life skills specialist with the International Foster Care program at Catholic Charities. I began CASA of Tarrant County as a Child Advocacy Specialist and became the Training Specialist in 2019.

At CASA I have witnessed the impact that a committed, compassionate adult can have in the life of a child from a hard place. It is very rewarding when a CASA shares how they have made a meaningful connection with a child, advocated for expanded services for a child or their family, or impacted the outcome of the legal case, all in pursuit of the best interest of a child.  I get to see through their eyes the importance of the work they do and the pride they feel in the knowledge that they made a difference in the life of a hurting child.

To our wonderful CASA volunteers, I say “Thank You!!!” CASA of Tarrant County was built upon your passion and hard work. We know we ask so much of you, and you continuously come forward to give of yourselves to this simple, yet monumental effort: that each child in foster care gets their best chance of reaching their potential.”

Advocating For Children's Education Through Computer Donations

Did you know? One of the ways CASA volunteers promote educational advocacy for the children on their cases is through finding them a laptop or computer, so they can complete their school assignments. CASA of Tarrant County is thankful for our partnership with Computer CPR, who refurbishes donated computers and gives them to the children we serve.

Program Director Denee Borchardt says: “Since 2019, Computer CPR of Southlake, Texas has partnered with CASA of Tarrant County in providing desktops and laptops to the children, caregivers, and/or foster parents we serve. To date, CPR has provided over 95 computers to our CASA families. Through their representative, Susan Jeandron, our advocates coordinate pick up and delivery of the computers.

Aiden was one child that benefited from this partnership recently. As a near-drowning victim, he suffered a severe brain injury and was paralyzed from the neck down. In foster care, his CASA volunteer identified his need for him to have his own laptop for zoom visits with family and other parties. Computer CPR ensured Aiden had the best and newest laptop available for his very own! On May 3rd, his CASA delivered it to him and he is now able to have zoom visits on his own.”

Child Advocacy Specialist Pam Reece, Ed. D. adds, “Growing up in today’s world without a computer is a major disadvantage for students. Combine that with being a student in foster care and you have a double disadvantage. Providing foster children with access to information through computers helps level the playing field for them. Statistically, less than 20% of students in foster care have their own computer. The other 80% either don’t have any access to a computer outside of school or they share one with the others in the foster home. How do they get access to classwork or homework when they don’t have a computer or have to wait their turn? Having a computer can help foster children feel part of the outside world and connected to their peers. They feel more like their friends and feel like they fit in more. Connectedness is beneficial for students’ self-esteem as it brings them normalcy in an otherwise chaotic life.”

Meet CASA Volunteer Kyla Richardson

Name: Kyla Richardson
Months/Years volunteering: 3.5 years
Children helped: 9
Favorite thing about CASA: My favorite thing about being a CASA is creating a relationship with each child and seeing how resilient each kiddo is in the face of every circumstance. I have loved seeing the support that a CASA can provide play out in family reunification.
Inspirational quote: Each child has taught me how to be a better person. Each child I have worked with has shown grace, forgiveness and hope. You truly are able to see how each kiddo can overcome their current challenges and change the world.
When not volunteering: I am a 7th Grade science Teacher and coach.
Fun fact: I am tall enough to put up Christmas lights on my house without a ladder.

BIG Announcement: Superhero Run News

EVERY CHILD NEEDS A HERO, BUT ABUSED CHILDREN NEED SUPERHEROES!

TO OUR SUPPORTERS

You’ve made a huge impact in the lives of the foster children we serve in our community. Your support gave thousands of our local foster children a CASA volunteer. And when those kids have a volunteer, they spend FIVE fewer months in foster care and 94% find a permanent home. You’ve been the greatest of champions for CASA. We wouldn’t be where we’re at without you.

You’ve run like the Flash. Assembled like the Avengers. You’ve been a Superhero. Every good Superhero knows when it’s time to hang up their cape. We’re not saying good-bye, just see you later.

It’s time to focus on our next mission. We have so many other ways you can be a shining light in the lives of the most vulnerable children in our community. You can continue to be a hero and support CASA’s work through:

  • Donating your registration fee directly to CASA - CLICK HERE

  • Continuing your great advocacy through a monthly donation - CLICK HERE

  • Attending our Fall Kids on Canvas event - CLICK HERE

YOU made the Superhero Run a success these past eight years. We hope you will continue your fight for justice for foster kids by continuing to support CASA of Tarrant County.


Meet New Board Member Casey Gillespie

We are thrilled to have Casey Gillespie, Director of Powerplant Engineering at American Airlines, join the CASA of Tarrant County Board of Directors! Read more about Casey below:

Casey gives the following message to our CASA volunteers, “Your amazing dedication and support of CASA is the only reason this mission advances!”

Why are you involved with CASA? “Every child deserves a chance - CASA is a beautiful organization that takes on the toughest cases and provides that constant support that those children need. They need their own voice and CASA provides that!”

What first caused you to get involved with CASA? “I recently moved to Tarrant County and wanted to get involved in the community and the CASA mission speaks to my heart. Being a mother myself I want to do everything I can to help children in need.”

What keeps you coming back every month in helping CASA? “I feel like by joining the board of directors - I have the ability to help CASA on a strategic front to meet our goal of serving all kids in Tarrant County!”

What would you say to a potential supporter? “We are not done until every child is served by CASA - every donation - every hour you volunteer matters. Please consider supporting your local community and CASA!”

Why do you think it’s important for your local community to support CASA and what they do? “Local support is very important - the kids and families served by CASA are local and having the support of your neighbors and community leaders is so important to the foundation of Tarrant County.”

Making Normalcy A Priority

July in Texas is full of sun, swimming pools, barbecues and tons of fun activities for children. Many children have the opportunity to enjoy their summer vacation by attending camps, participating in sports or having a summer job, but there are many children in foster care who do not get the chance to experience these sorts of summertime activities.

Removed from home and placed in the child welfare system because their family is in crisis, these children are already facing trauma that no child should experience – yet on top of all of that, their participation in normal childhood activities with their peers often becomes an afterthought.

Kids in foster care can feel disconnected from other kids their age because of what they’re going through, so it’s important to help them feel as normal as possible. Getting the chance to participate in normal childhood activities – and just be a kid – can be essential to a child’s well-being.

“Normalcy” is a term commonly used in child welfare for any experiences that contribute to a child’s autonomy and social functioning. Activities associated with a “normal” childhood, such as sleepovers, pool parties, having an ice cream cone or going to a homecoming dance can be imperative to a child’s sense of security, regularity and well-being. Another aspect of normalcy is working to ensure that the realities and difficulties of a child’s situation interrupt their everyday lives as little as possible.

Friendship and socialization are imperative for children to maintain good health and psychological well-being. While things like visitation, appointments and therapy are essential for the children we serve, we don’t want them to come in the way of everyday activities that are also important to their development, like school or an extracurricular activity. Foster parents, CASA volunteers, caseworkers and others who serve children in foster care must work together to make normalcy a priority.

These children have been through enough. The last thing they need is to be excluded from fun social activities with their peers. This summer, CASA of Tarrant County aims to help local children in foster care have the opportunity to partake in normal, age-appropriate experiences.

CASA volunteers are specially trained and appointed by judges to speak up for a child and advocate for their unique needs in court, at school and in other settings. They also get to know the other adults in the child’s life, including their parents, family, foster parents, caseworkers, counselors and more, and work with them to ensure the best interests of the child come first.

Ultimately, true normalcy is achieved when children are no longer in the system and have the resources and support they need to thrive—preferably back home with their family whenever safe and possible. Until then, they need a voice to speak up for them, to ensure they are able to participate in hobbies and activities that will help them grow and heal.

Become a CASA volunteer and advocate for a child who needs you! Start by attending one of our virtual information sessions. Click here for more information.

Meet CASA Volunteer Rebekah Sweetenham

What made you decide to become a CASA? In my former career, I spent countless hours processing crime scenes and analyzing forensic evidence often involving children who were victims of domestic violence, abuse, and/or innocent bystanders. Needless to say, I quit that job and moved across state not really knowing what I was going to put my energy into. This would be the first time I had the bandwidth to do something I had always wanted to do, VOLUNTEER.  I believe our trajectory in life begins when we are born. It only takes one person or one experience to change that. Support for our youth and those experiencing generational trauma are at the height of importance. I want to be that constant, that unwavering love and safe haven. I want to be a facilitator of information, hope, and security. That friend that listens without judgement, a cheerleader, and a soundboard. 

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? The most rewarding part is that smile, when they feel safe with you and are at peace. Listening to their dreams in life. Experiencing milestones together…learning to speak, progressing in school, overcoming behavioral differences. 

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. I am especially grateful for every waking moment with my kids. 

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kid(s)? It’s always fun to connect doing something interactive. I like to verbally validate their feelings and consistently let them know I am here for them and no one else. I find that asking questions is just a bore for the kids. When visiting, I don’t bring my phone or any other distractions. I ensure they have my undivided attention whether it is face to face or otherwise. I give them the opportunity to lead the conversation and step in if I feel they are struggling. I like to visit with no expectations leaving room for organic interaction. Sometimes we don’t converse and that’s okay. Expression has many forms and who am I to dictate what that is for the children?

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children? I feel like uncertainty is the root of fear. We fear what we don’t know. Navigating life is hard enough as an adult. These kids meet a multitude of people during placement and lengthy court proceedings. I CHOSE to move to a new town at 38 years old and it was HARD. These children are thrust into a new life, with sometimes multiple placements (often strangers), new schools, doctors, friends, “pseudo”siblings, and all of the professionals they are trusting to keep them safe. A CASA provides a routine of sorts to help keep them grounded and gives them assurance that though the world is spinning around them, they know where true north is. We have the privilege to act as a compass when they feel lost. What a gift it is to be a CASA.

 

This Father's Day, Consider Changing the Dynamic of a Child's Future

Fathers often play an important role in the family.  Society sees them as leaders.  Children often see them as someone to look up to, or someone building a path for them to follow and one day lead.  Often missing in the dynamic of children in foster care is not only normalcy, but that figure to look up to.  Of course, some foster families step up to the plate. But as many of us know, it's not always easy to give a child that attention.  Many of our children lacked that fatherly role before coming into care. This is why having male advocates is so vital to the future and the growth of children in care.  Many times, they are often the only male role model a child currently has or ever had. Having that male role model helps restore faith to those children in care that there are men in this world that they can trust.  No matter the role played, just the presence of a male CASA can change the dynamic of a child's future.  We have advocates who have become like a father, grandfather, and even like a friend because that advocate chose to be a presence in a child's life.  Being there to listen, guiding them to make their own decisions, giving insight on life based on their experiences and just showing them that somebody cared. It's not always about showing your strength, or showing what you can do, but showing up and showing that you care can show a child a new future. 

We’ve asked a few of our male advocates, Mark Skaggs, Eric Salting, and Jay Wilson, to chime in on how important male advocacy and a positive male role model is to the children we serve in our county. 

CASA: What first caused you to get involved with CASA?

Mark Skaggs: I’ve never been blessed with children of my own but have felt strongly that all responsible adults should be involved in some way with the formation of children and youth in our community.  I’ve always wondered how I could best make a positive impact.  I heard about CASA in 2021 and knew that was the role for me.  I went through all the training, and I was hooked.
 
Jay Wilson: I decided that I needed to get involved in the community and make a positive impact. I wanted to find an organization that had a big need and made a big impact.  Before I chose CASA I had supported some other organizations but found that they had plenty of volunteers and the need for my support was not critical. When I heard about CASA I attended an information session and realized that there were around 500 children currently without a CASA Advocate and then when I became aware of the impact that an Advocate has in a child’s life I decided that CASA was where I needed to focus my efforts.

CASA: Why do you think it’s important to have a positive male role model?

Eric: It's important for children to see examples of both good/loving males and females.  It is also important for men to get involved where they can make a difference.  Studies show service leads to long term happiness.

Mark: Far too many homes do not have a responsible father or father figure in children’s lives.  Children in these homes are hungering for a responsible adult male that they can look to as a model for guidance and support and know that they can rely on them to be there for them.

Jay: I think that boys need a positive male role model to lead them by example. You can tell someone what they should do but if you show someone how they should act and behave it has a bigger influence on them. It is also important that a boy has a male role model that he can talk to and that can teach him the skills he needs to interact socially with other boys and girls. Education and sports are two focus points that are critical in a young boy’s life.

CASA: Why do you think there is a high need for male advocates?

Mark: The ratio of CASA advocates is tilted heavily toward women volunteers. With foster boys in particular, male advocates can readily connect with them more closely through sports and games and can build a level of trust to have deeper conversations on the critical topics of life, school, friends, and right from wrong.

Jay: I think recruitment and retention are two areas that are a challenge when it comes to male advocates, which drives the high need. Men don’t typically volunteer at the same rate as women, which makes recruitment a challenge.  And men often come from a work environment in which they provide direction and there is immediate action/change. Nurturing and influencing children require time and patience which can have an impact on the retention rate.  

CASA: What keeps you coming back to help the kids we serve in our county?

Mark:  These kids are so resilient. Given the trauma they’ve come from, seeing them grow their confidence and ability, and to begin trusting again, and to smile and laugh, witnessing these life victories is so gratifying.  As a CASA, it is a privilege to be a small part of their journey.

Jay: There is nothing better that you can do than to help a Kid overcome trauma, let them know that they are valued and, as a result, help them become a productive citizen in the community.  That’s what a CASA Advocate can be in a child’s life. I have advocated for kids of all ages ranging from four to 18 years old and I have had a positive impact on all of them. They still have challenges to overcome but CASA is a positive influence in their lives when they need it most.  

CASA: If you are currently working: Between your personal and professional life, how do you balance a career, a personal life, and advocating for children?

Eric: Is it possible to work full time and help children in foster care? I work full time, go to school, travel for work and am a single father. I've found that the time needed to make a difference is not substantial and much more rewarding than other ways I have spent my time (binge watching TV, watching sports, etc.).  Also, by having an open conversation with my family and friends about the time commitment, they are supportive of my work with CASA and help free up time by taking on responsibilities so I can dedicate myself to the child/case.

Meet CASA Volunteer Sara Armbrecht

What made you decide to become a CASA? I was first introduced to CASA years ago through Kappa Alpha Theta.  The pandemic inspired me to prioritize and carve out time for something I’d always wanted to do.

What has been the most rewarding part of being a CASA? It’s the little things --- the smiles and hugs from the children, a thank you from a bio or foster parent or the sense of accomplishment when you solve a problem. I joined CASA because I wanted to be a bright light in a child’s life and what I underestimated was how much it would make a difference in my life.   

Please share a special moment with us about your advocacy work with your CASA kid or on your case. As I was leaving a visit with the kids, saying my goodbyes, the little five-year-old waved me off with a “Be Good, Sara!” That moment just warmed my heart.  

After months of one of my CASA kiddos not getting the play therapy he needed, he was finally placed on the list with a 6 month wait. I made some phone calls and found a play therapist that could see him the following week.  These kids often just need someone who will put in a little extra time and effort and follow up on their behalf.   

What is your favorite way to connect with your CASA kid(s)? I love arts and crafts, reading stories or time at a playground. You can learn a lot through observing kids in action and it also gives them an opportunity to open up while having fun.

Why do you think having a CASA volunteer throughout such a chaotic time is important for foster children?There are so many kids in need of love, support and consistent adults in their lives.  CASA volunteers’ presence can have a lasting impact on their foster care experience and their childhood.  This not only benefits these children but extends to their families, schools and ultimately our community as a whole. 

Meet Assistant Program Director Stephanie Dickinson

Why did you decide to come work for CASA?  I wanted to help children from hard places and be able to have a good work life balance for my own family.

What is your professional and educational background? I graduated Magna Cum Laude from the University of North Texas in 2013, where I majored in Political Science and minored in Social Sciences.  I was an investigator at Child Protective Services for almost two years.  In 2015,  I came to CASA as a Child Advocacy Specialist.  After that, I was promoted to a Child Advocacy Supervisor and was in that role for 5 years.  Recently, I was promoted to Assistant Program Director at CASA of Tarrant County.

What first caused you to get involved with CASA?  Prior to CASA, I was an investigator with Child Protective Services.  At that time, I was a single mother with two elementary school aged children.  Being an investigator was demanding on my time, and my work/life balance was basically non-existent.  One night, my oldest son looked at me and said, “why do other kids matter more than us?”  I put my two week notice in shortly after that.  I began researching how to still help children while also prioritizing time for my own children.  That is where CASA came in.  It’s been over six years and I still get to help children and families, and be present with my own children and family.

What keeps you coming back every month in helping CASA?  Absolutely the non-profit paycheck, hands down.  Just kidding.  I would have to say that the work we do, although hard, is rewarding.  Seeing parents get a second chance in life to grow and learn from their mistakes, and then have the opportunity to get their children back when it’s safe is extremely rewarding.  Everyone is worthy of redemption.  Seeing families step in to provide care and connection to these children during a horrific time for all involved inspires me to be better to my own family.  Seeing volunteers and staff take on a burden no one forced them to do while they help to absorb the shock of the system for the children on their cases leaves me humbled.  I come back because the work is worth it, the relationships are worth it, and above all, the children and families are worth it.

What has been the most rewarding part of being on staff at CASA?  The constant reminder of how much good there is in this world even in the midst of the bad.  Our volunteers, my co-workers, families, and partnering agencies that I get to work with daily gives me the brightest silver lining in this work.

Please share a special moment with us about your work with CASA volunteers or supporters.  Honestly, this is difficult.  After 6 plus years, there are way too many to count.  Every time that a volunteer invests in the lives of a parent or a relative is a special moment.  Our volunteers have offered so much support and encouragement to these families, and in doing so, they’ve made that child’s life better.  Children deserve to be with their family when it is safe and loving.  The most special memories I have at CASA are the cases where these volunteers have invested in the family.

What would you say to a potential supporter? Don’t wait. Everyone can support CASA of Tarrant County in one way or another.  If you have the calling and the time to work with these children,  become an advocate.  If you have the finances that allows you to donate to help the children and families secure an advocate for their case, please donate.  If you can’t do either at this time, please tell everyone you know about our agency and what we do. Maybe you simply sharing with others about our organization can help enlist others to support us in the ways mentioned above. 

Why do you think it’s important for your local community to support CASA and what they do?  We could not do this work without our local community.  Our volunteers are the heart of this agency, and their life experiences, backgrounds, diversity, and different perspectives are necessary in this work.  They provide guidance and love to those who are in desperate need of it, and our community as a whole benefits when this occurs.

Do you want to share some encouraging words to our volunteers?  The impact that you have on the children’s and families’ lives will not always be known or seen during the time that we work our cases.  You are planting seeds of love, value, and esteem.  Sometimes we forget that the greatest impact in our case isn’t the outcome, but that our consistency in showing up for a child teaches them that they are worth someone showing up for.